Even if you were a child of the 60's and 70's and fully leaned into the women's movement?

Do you still carry that torch for liberation but keep hidden vulnerable parts of your life?

....weight, career, perfectionism, relationships, clutter

I am a safe place to start to remove the masks of people pleasing; unfulfilling roles and habits of a packaged life that lacks your brilliance.

 -- When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. - Lao Tzu 

Is your life looking and feeling a bit too robotic?  Feeling choked with all the prescriptions given to you by how others think your life ought to look?  Wonder when does the real you get to shine?  Caught up in those nasty rules of perfectionism and fear of making the wrong choice from too much people pleasing?  Been playing the game “Yearning for acceptance” a bit too long?  Do you hold your breath waiting to find out if you’ve done something the right way or the wrong way?

This is what I call a caged soul. 

You are tired and frustrated from wallowing too long in the slop of rules dictated by everyone else.

I can help you set boundaries and get clear about what you want from a relationship, career, or your body.

I bet you wear the mask of a frozen smile.

I bet you have a tough and independent exterior and underneath a tenderness so sweet.

I bet it’s awfully hard to show you are vulnerable.

You are overwhelmed by waves of frustration and injustice. You want to be famous for exactly who you are. You want someone to point at you and say “rules are only for a select few and are meant to be broken by everyone else.” 

I can help you to start to peel away the layers of fears and expose and trust the soft underbelly of your divineness.

I can help you thaw the smile and regain feeling so you loosen your shoulders a bit and let your hair down.  Take a dance with the part of you that feels the itch of moving beyond the rules. Put the music on loud (I’m partial to Train) and we’re going to dance.

Is there a secret desire at times to be a “wild child out of control, dizzy with endless choices and options?” 

But that seems impossible? Too risky, right? 

I can help you experience the complex and fulfilling taste of Desire. 

Your smile comes from the pure joy of being ALIVE and there’s nothing forced about that. 

I don’t want you or me or anyone else out there to die a slow death by following all the rules.  So take my hand, open your eyes and we’ll dip your toe into some really cool, velvet waters that feel so delicious that you’ll want to immerse your entire body in and emerge whole and sacred.  Not caged anymore.